How to improve the communication between very different groups of people
In order to effectively
communicate between the different generations, it is important to understand
their differences and their unique approach to life. It begins with values that
are important to each generation. For example, while the Baby Boomers put a lot
of emphasis on work, the Generation X’s would rather find a good work/life
balance.
There is an
article from Colorado State University that addresses each of the four recent
generations:
Traditionalists
Traditionalists values are
influenced by the experiences of their parents whose values go back to the
1800s. This generation experienced the Great Depression and World War II both
of which shape how they view the world.
Traditionalists
Value
- Privacy: Traditionalists are the
private, silent generation. Don't expect members of this generation to
share their inner thoughts.
- Hard Work: They believe in paying
their dues and become irritated when they perceive others are wasting
their time. Members of this generation often feel that their career
identifies who they are.
- Trust: A traditionalist's word is
his/her bond.
- Formality: Whether written or in
oral communication a formal communication style is preferred. This
generation values formal dress and organizational structures.
- Authority and institutional
leadership: Traditionalists have a great deal of respect for authority.
- Social Order: Other generations
may view this desire for social order and placement as bias, prejudice or
even racism or sexism.
- Things: This group loves their
stuff and they won't get rid of it. Some may call them pack rats but
others would argue that they remember the depression days and going with
out. You never know when you might need it.
Supportive Behaviors and Tips For Communicating with
Traditionalists
- By nature Traditionalists are
private, the "silent generation". Don't expect members of this
generation to share their thoughts immediately.
- For the Traditionalist an educator's
word is his/her bond, so it's important to focus on words rather than body
language or inferences.
- Face to face or written
communication is preferred.
- Don't waste their time, or let
them feel as though their time is being wasted.
Baby Boomers
Morris Massey calls this
group the Nuagers. This generation represents the children of our World War II
veterans. They did not go through economically hard times as their parents did,
they had the good life - the Traditionalists wanted them to have the best and
as a result, the "Me" decade arrived.
Baby Boomers Value
- Competition: Boomers value peer
competition and can be see by others as being egocentric.
- Change: Boomers thrive for
possibilities and constant change.
- Hard Work: Boomers started the
"workaholic" trend. The difference between Traditionalists and
Boomers is that Boomers value the hard work because they view it as
necessary for moving to the next level of success while Traditionalists
work hard because they feel that it is the right thing to do.
- Success: This generation is
committed to climbing the ladder of success.
- Body Language: Boomers are the
show me generation and body language is important.
- Teamwork: This group embraces a
team based approach to business-they are eager to get rid of the command
and control style of their Traditionalist predecessors.
- Anti Rules and Regulations: They
don't appreciate rules for the sake of having rules and they will
challenge the system.
- Inclusion: This generation will
accept people on an equal basis as long as they can perform to their
standards.
- Will Fight For A Cause: While they
don't like problems, if you give them a cause they will fight for it.
Supportive Behaviors & Tips For Communicating With Baby
Boomers
- Boomers are the "show
me" generation, so your body language is important when
communicating.
- Speak in an open, direct style but
avoid controlling language.
- Answer questions thoroughly and
expect to be pressed for the details.
- Present options to demonstrate
flexibility in your thinking.
Generation Xers
Morris Massey refers to
this group as the Syn-Tech generation. This generation is both economically
conservative, remembering double-digit inflation and the stress that their
parents faced during times of on and off unemployment. Unlike their
predecessors, they will not rely on institutions for their long-term security.
Generation Xers Value
- Entrepreneurial Spirit: Xers
believe in investing in their own development rather than in their
organization's. While others may see them as disloyal they are cautious
about investing in relationships with employers because experience has
shown that these relationships are not reliable. Cavalier as it may sound,
one Xer told a Boomer that if you want loyalty get a dog.
- Loyalty: To an Xer, this may mean
two-weeks notice.
- Independence and Creativity: Xers
have clear goals and prefer managing their own time and solving their own
problems rather than having them managed by a supervisor.
Information: They value access to information and love plenty of it. - Feedback: This group needs
continuous feedback and they use the feedback to adapt to new situations.
This generation is flexible.
- Quality of Worklife: This
generation works hard but they would rather find quicker more efficient
ways of working so that they have time for fun. While Boomers are working
hard to move up the ladder, Xers are working hard so that they can have
more time to balance work and life responsibilities.
Supportive Behaviors & Tips for Communicating With Generation
X
- Use email as a primary
communication tool.
- Talk in short sound bites to keep
their attention.
- Ask them for their feedback and
provide them with regular feedback.
- Share information with them on a
regular basis and strive to keep them in the loop.
- Use an informal communication
style.
Generation Y (Also Called Nexters)
If you think that
Generation Xers were challenging for Traditionalists and Boomers to teach, just
wait until Generation Y arrives. Generation Y represents people who have grown
up during the high tech revolution. They have never known a world without high
speed video games, speed dial and ATMs. The secret to motivating this group is
to provide systematic and frequent feedback - as it happens.
Generation Y Values
- Positive Reinforcement: Members of
this cyber generation value positive reinforcement at accelerated rates
compared to older generations.
- Autonomy: This group wants more
input into how they are learning and the independence to do it.
- Positive Attitudes: This group
grew up during tranquil times and as a result have a very optimistic
outlook on life in general.
- Diversity: This group grew up with
more diversity than their predecessors and if not exposed to it in their
community then they were introduced diverse people and cultures through
the media.
- Money: This group is used to
making and spending money.
- Technology: Technology is valued
and is used as a tool for multi-tasking.
Supportive Behaviors & Tips for Communicating With
Generation Y
- Use action words and challenge
them at every opportunity.
- They will resent it if you talk
down to them.
- They prefer email communication.
- Seek their feedback constantly and
provide them with regular feedback.
- Use humor and create a fun
learning environment. Don't take yourself too seriously.
- Encourage them to take risks and
break the rules so that they can explore new ways of learning.
Managing the Generational Mix
How do we keep a
generationally diverse group of learners motivated in today's environment? The
first step to making the generational diversity work is to understand what
motivates members of different generations and to institute teaching techniques
that are flexible enough to meet their needs. In today's complex mix of
generations, Traditionalists are found with Boomers and Boomers with Generation
Xers. Trends toward later retirements mean that traditionalists are still happy
working and learning and Generation Xers are quickly moving into positions of
power and influence where they are supervising and educating members of older
generations.
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